Toilet training is an exciting time for parents and children. It is a developmental transition in a child’s life that can be challenging, frustrating, satisfying and wonderful. It is another skill to be developed in a child’s life. Here are my Top 10 Tips to ensure success.
TOP 10 TIPS FOR TOILET TRAINING
Make sure your child is getting 5 drinks a day (breakfast, morning tea, lunch, afternoon tea and dinner). The majority should be water. This helps to keep poos regular and soft and helps build good bladder capacity.
Before you start the training stage with your child, move nappies and nappy changing into or close to the toilet area. Tip poo into the toilet, wipe the child’s bottom and ask them to flush the paper. This helps your child to get used to the toilet.
3. TOILET BEFORE BATH
As part of your preparation, start sitting your child on the potty or toilet when they are undressed for a bath or shower. Don’t expect them to do anything but this helps them to get used to sitting on the toilet or potty.
4. UNDIES AT HOME
When toilet training begins, put your child into undies at home and use a pull-up or nappy when you go out. Undies help your child to learn the sensation of being wet and dry which is not so clear with disposable nappies.
5. EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
When toilet training begins try to establish how often your child needs to wee and when they are most likely to poo. Try to take your child to the toilet at regular intervals but not too close together - about one and a half to two hours apart is usually about right. Tell your child “its time to try for a wee”, rather than asking them if they need one. Try for a poo at their regular time or if they have no pattern try about half an hour after a meal.
Expect accidents, they are part of toilet training. If everyone is getting frustrated, put your child’s nappy back on and try tomorrow or another day. It’s okay to try in the mornings or just on weekends and then build on success.
Relax and don’t make toilet training a big deal. Don’t talk about it lots, don’t keep repeatedly asking your child if they need the toilet and don’t tell them they will be a big girl or boy if they use the toilet. For many children being a big boy or girl is quite frightening.
8. SKIP THE TOILET TALK!
Toilet training is a private matter between you and your child. Don’t discuss with relatives and friends. When well meaning people ask you and your child how the child is going, this can add to the anxiety for both you and the child.
9. BE POSITIVE
Remain positive, some children will take longer to learn than others as with all skill development. Always use appropriate positive language when talking about toileting.
10. ITS OK TO STOP
If it’s not working, don’t be afraid to stop for a few weeks or months. If you are stressed, this can make it harder for your child to learn.
Monica Ferrie is Mama You've Got This' Toilet Training Expert from Toilet Training Educators. Monica presents Toilet Training at Mama You've Got This Toddler Masterclass and can answer any of your questions in regards to toilet training live during the Masterclass. To hear the very best Expert advice book your place today. https://www.mamayouvegotthis.com.au/events/toddler-masterclass-2